P\u00e4\u00e4t\u00e4n olla onnellinen joka paiv\u00e4, jos en pysty olla joka p\u00e4iv\u00e4, p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00e4n olla ainakin suurimman osan p\u00e4iv\u00e4st\u00e4, jos en pysty olla suurinta osaa p\u00e4iv\u00e4st\u00e4 p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00e4n olla ainakin pienen osan p\u00e4iv\u00e4st\u00e4 ja jos sek\u00e4\u00e4n ei ole mahdollista p\u00e4\u00e4t\u00e4n olevani onnellinen uudelleen huomenna ja jokaisena p\u00e4iv\u00e4n\u00e4 t\u00e4st\u00e4 eteenp\u00e4in.<\/p>\n
Tieni onnellisuuden l\u00f6yt\u00e4miseen ei ole helppo, mutta ainakin uskallan l\u00e4hte\u00e4 tuolle tielle. El\u00e4m\u00e4ni on ollut rankka ja monen el\u00e4m\u00e4\u00e4ni tulleen ammattilaisen mukaan moni olisi jo luovuttanut el\u00e4m\u00e4n herran haltuun. Kerron el\u00e4m\u00e4ni tarinaa pala palalta ja toiveenani on jonain p\u00e4iv\u00e4n\u00e4 julkaista kirja parisuhteisiin, seksuaalisuuteen ja itsens\u00e4 etsimiseen liittyen.<\/p>\n
Olen t\u00e4m\u00e4n prosessin my\u00f6t\u00e4 lukenut itseni seksuaalineuvojaksi sek\u00e4 samalla lukenut satoja kirjoja koskien ihmisen henkist\u00e4 kasvua, el\u00e4m\u00e4ntaito-oppaita, parisuhdev\u00e4kivaltaa, pett\u00e4mist\u00e4, psykopaatin-narsismin uhriutta, psykologiaa sek\u00e4 seksuaalisuutta k\u00e4sittelev\u00e4\u00e4 materiaalia.<\/p>\n
Uskon vahvaan tahtoon, uskon itseeni, uskon siihen, ett\u00e4 min\u00e4 saan sen mit\u00e4 haluan. Kysymys kuuluu vain, tied\u00e4nk\u00f6 mit\u00e4 haluan? Jos haluan rakkautta, tulee minun ajatella rakkautta eik\u00e4 sen puutetta. Jos haluan olla onnellinen, tulee minun ajatella onnellisuutta eik\u00e4 mielipahaa.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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